So, we've been in the house for a while, and really, it's going fine. But Dorothy is inclined to turn-down options; she doesn't want to go outside when I suggest it, and so forth. I've come up with a solution that's working so well I practically feel guilty. I call it "mystery card". I have written activities on index cards and each day Dorothy gets to draw a card and do that activity. Now, these are just basic fun that Dorothy would normally reject, like "paint with watercolors" or "blow bubbles", but dang if when I put it on a card she doesn't look forward to it, beg for it, and then enthusiastically do it.
I've also invented a part of our day called "oldie but goodie", where she needs to find a toy she hasn't used in a while and play with it.
Mystery card: Mama's little watercolors